Tuesday, July 6, 2010

再過一小時就要去見叔叔的客戶。。可是我好困。。zzzzzzzZZZZZZ~

整裝!再出發!GOGOGO!

看了時間表,這個學期修了五/六科,時間好緊湊。。除了周二,周一至周六都有課。。有意思的挑戰!

算了一算剩下的科目,還有七科就畢業了。對於未來的憧憬,我好期待。

算了一算屋主開給我的房屋收據,才知道一年過去了。好快。

過去一年里的事情發展也隨著控制範圍內發生,當然也有些事情是意外之外的。

從每一件小事件都悟得道理。 三年多的吉隆坡生涯也像個模擬現實社會,挺真實的。

看了一看朋友圈子,竟然一半以上是這三年里認識的。 精英學院生涯更是讓我看到以往看不見的現實。“現實與夢想要懂得分開” 勁能狠狠的對我說了這一句。

雖然我沒有把二十一歲的願望告訴任何人,但是它仍然沒有實現,還變得更糟了。

過了一段日子,一切就會變回原來的樣子。 你還是你,他還是他,我還是我。

要拼才會贏,你擬好目標了沒?我做好了。 往目標前進去!! GOGOGO!!






p/s:儘管我什麽都沒有,但是我多的是信心。

Monday, July 5, 2010

所謂的成熟男人主要的表現。

一、重视诺言:成熟男人绝对不会出尔反尔,
他对自己的每个承诺都相当重视,
在许愿之前周密考虑,自己的话是否真能兑现
,如能兑现的话他决不说,言出必践。
他的每一句话都让你觉得放心、可信任。满嘴跑火车、乱放空炮、
迟迟拿不出行动的男人,与成熟不沾边。

二、不夸夸其谈:成熟男人从不随随便便高谈阔论,
他会把握适当的沉默,说话声音清晰但不乱嚷。
随便喝点酒就把自己的点小经历小故事拿来满桌子大讲,
不用喇叭半屋人都能听见的,这种男人,
最多博听众一笑,
谁也不会把你那五花八门的所谓“奋斗之路”放在心里。

三、有学识而含蓄内敛:他们读书,接受新事物新信息,
不断丰富自己的内涵。但他们不张扬,
他们的才华只在必需的时候才展现出来,
决不会为了满足虚荣去刻意卖弄。
他们如醇厚的酒,越品越有味道。

四、心胸宽广:成熟男人不斤斤计较,
不贪图小便宜,不在乎吃点小亏,
不喋喋不休地抱怨这抱怨那。
他们的眼光从不被琐碎事务绊住,
对于家庭中的小争吵,他们经常是“首先回头的天使”。

五、不以自我为中心:成熟男人尊重自己,
更懂得尊重他人。他们善于换位思考,
会站在别人的立场上来考虑问题,
不强求别人迁就自己,善于同别人合作。
凡是“我怎样怎样”的男人,
典型的小皇帝脾气,还没长大。

六、勇于承认错误:成熟男人不顽固,
能接受不同意见,善于采纳好的建议。
对于自己的不当决策,他们勇于承担后果,
从不找借口搪塞推诿。

七、意志坚定:
成熟男人有处变不乱的心理素质,
他们一旦确定自己奋斗的目标,
就朝着它努力,遇到挫折,他们分析原因,
吸取教训,及时修正方向,
但决不轻易言退。他们会疲倦,但在休整后,
又信心十足地出发了。

八、干净整洁:成熟男人尊重自己的外表。
他们留最适合自己的发型,
下巴干净没有胡子茬,面部不油腻,
不留长指甲。衣服不一定要名牌,但整洁大方,
不会穿得皱巴巴象个送快递的。
他们决不会穿黑皮鞋配白袜子,穿着西服去旅游。

九、尊老爱幼:成熟男人有爱心,
有社会责任感,有中华民族的传统美德。

他会给老人和孕妇让座,会给受灾地区捐款捐物,
会帮助失学儿童,会义务献血……
这些事情他们不一定全做,但他们决不会什么都不做。

十、有业余爱好:他们不是只知道工作的机器人,
懂得用业余爱好来调节自己紧绷的神经,
工作休闲两不误,这使他们有情趣。
怪不得女人们说:有爱好的男人不容易变坏。

Sunday, July 4, 2010

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Aha! Tiffany has back to the town..I missed her laughter.. wahaha...poor her gets many kisses from mosquitoes..

Last friday I went to T.G.I Fridays for lunch. It is kinda weird to see African waiters and waitresses.. that place was the first restaurant I saw African servants and the second time was yesterday at Crowne Plaza Mutiara Hotel. I wonder how do they apply for it ...=]

Back to Fridays. The last time I visited was with Suvi. That was sad when the servant asked: how many person,Sir?

I chose a table at the corner so that not many can see me. But then eventually there was one weird waiter [ no racial emphasis ] keep peeping at me...AARRGG...uncomfortable.

Then went for both TGV and GSC for movie ticket..GSC's queue was too long and TGV's showing time were around 8 to 9pm consider late..therefore i just gave up the idea.

I met an aunt when waiting for Rapid.. I started a small conversation with her.. she works 3 jobs a month and her total salary is only 1k+..
We abroad the bus and I did waved to her when I got down Rapid...Sigh...another sad thing to hear about.

that was how I spent my last friday.

life without you...=/

continued..

It has been a year.. and you left..

Used to call you out for dinner, lunch.few days in a week but not breakfast..now the dining table will less one person.

Sorry for being cold sometimes and ignorance when you're talking..especially comes to relationship issues.

we shared secrets, problems, your family and mine, your brothers, my sisters, your admires ...and especially the one you will always mentioned in our every conversation..sometimes visited *bucks when I was working, telling cold gags [ that was funny actually].. =D

But now,I miss you already..=/

That day I was about to date you out for dinner as usual.. but when I received your reply, My soul were taken pieces by pieces, you should see my facial expression, Hafeez the partner thought I lose money in betting world cup...XD
But, I didn't even know that your were leaving that day. No farewell between us, no warm hugs, no wishes, and many..I am such a bad brother..

You know you are important for me. I feel anxiety when I dont know when would be the next time we will meet again.. probably indefinable.

thank you, thanks for living and passing with me in the past one year..

Kian Tiah,I will always miss you and please dont cry when you read this chapter...=/

My facebook acc will always be there for you.






Time to move on * again*..

Just back from Crowne Plaza Mutiara Hotel for a wedding dinner.. the whole process was so grand and classy. I pretty like it personally.

Wore my new blazer and shoes. that was cool...sadly, no picture taken.

The groom and bride were very match and I can see happiness in their eyes..*wink*

Manage to talk with mates around the dinner and met people who came from different fields and doing it diversely. From social around time to time, I realized how important it is about your appearance like; attire, the way of talking, and etc when you are attending a public social activity. Because people are just decide whether to talk to you by your first impression.

Back to me, things around me are just getting weird weird and weird. I have no idea what happened exactly but I kinda know that it is different from previously. Yes, you want to tell me that " I am thinking too much"..but you know I am not.

An idea flashed through my mind moment ago. I realized I might become a third party in a relationship. That is terrible. I never thought I could be a man like that. I am so guilty for what I've done. God, forgive me. I could imagine how painful for a man to lose his love ones to an outsider. Please forgive my sins.

Btw, thanks for passing through my boring life.









Saturday, July 3, 2010

聽說

聽說,巴西輸了。。

聽說,踢假球呢。。

聽說,Law很多學生不及格。。

聽說,我好像就是其中一個。。

聽說,人的體質是天生的。。

聽說,這樣增肥都沒效的。。

聽說,而且會把胃撐大的。。



聽說,最近很多大減價。。

聽說,你七月就要回家。。

聽說,馬華會撤換總會長。。

聽說,思念會不斷的增長。。

聽說,你的身體不舒服。。

聽說,本朝綱目藥很苦。。

聽說,但是藥效最佩服。。

聽說,表姐現在很孤獨。。

聽說,而你正埋頭苦讀。。

聽說,晚安【拼音:wan an】是這樣來的。。。【w】o我 【a】i 【n】i你 【a】i 【n】i你

聽說,每一晚這樣跟你說, 你慢慢會愛上我的。。

但是,這樣寫下去不是辦法。。所以呢。。

我想說:【晚安】